“Don’t judge me”
A quick note about this notion about not judging people. Now, I don’t mean judging for objective rights and wrongs in the biblical “judge not” sense. I mean that soft social value judgment we all engage in and too many people seem to complain about.
Make no mistake that when someone says “don’t judge me” it’s not what they mean. They’re lying to protect that soft spot in their ego.
They want very much to BE judged and pass that judgment.